Sister got engaged one month before my wedding. advice?

2021.09.22 04:13 beefork Sister got engaged one month before my wedding. advice?

Hey everyone!
I am honestly wondering if I am a complete B****h for being pretty upset that my sister got engaged tonight, one month before my wedding. She is technically my step sister but I have known her since I was 8. She is not in the bridal party. She has been dating her now fiance for 2-3 years. I have been dating my fiance for 8.5 years and had to have a 2 year long engagement due to Covid.
On the one hand, its been a long engagement for us and she shouldn't have to delay her life, but on the other hand, can you wait 5 weeks or at least text me giving a heads up versus letting me find out via social media? She got engaged the day after my wedding shower that she couldn't come to because of a pre-planned vacation with her "boyfriend". I am obviously upset right now but it could be due to the wedding stress and I am hoping you can help me understand objectively. I love her and want her to be happy with all my heart, I am just really sad about the timing.
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2021.09.22 04:13 Linux_Life Homer Loses It

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2021.09.22 04:13 mariepier989 Are they in contact?

My bf used to go out with this girl, they talked again when we were together in the first phase of the relationship and we broke up because of that. After that we got together again but now suddenly they unfollowed each other from everything, and after a couple of days started to follow each other back. What does this mean? Are they in touch? How do I approach him? We have a big event on saturday, dont know if to wait after that and talk in person with him, or just text him wtf is happening. He knows I hate this girl.
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2021.09.22 04:13 Blackbuda-40 Uxie raid first 10. 0600 9543 1976. 689892136649

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2021.09.22 04:13 SunnySilvers Locking my cat out of my bedroom

Hi, I adopted a 2 year orange tabby 2 months ago and let him sleep with me in my bed for a month now. But I didn't realize but my sleep has been quite affected. I religiously follow the play eat sleep method that Jackson Galaxy recommends. I've started locking him out 4 days ago and the meows in the morning do not stop. I like to add in that the bedroom is open most of the daytime. So I only close it at nightI give him lots of love and attention when I can. my questions are:

  1. Will he start feeling anxious? He likes to follow me everywhere.
  2. Will he start to hate me?
  3. Should I lock my bedroom completely? in the daytime too
i read that this is possible to do.
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2021.09.22 04:13 CryptoDanO Eth transfer question

If I transfer my eth off of Voyager, beyond the fee Voyager charges, can we modify the eth netork fee we offer ? OR does Voyager set our eth fee and we cannot alter it.
I assume but want to verify that is the eth fee is too high, in my opinion, can i just cancel the transfer and try again later? Looking for a lower fee in the am .
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2021.09.22 04:13 Skreamz13-13 I brushed out her curls...and I am IN LOVE

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2021.09.22 04:13 Streetraider Who is their driver?

I'm on season two and I just was wondering who is driving the RV most of the time?! Seeing interviews of them talking in the RV while it's moving and never get to see the driver.
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2021.09.22 04:13 Scytzoe Oh that little guy, I wouldn't worry about that little guy

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2021.09.22 04:13 PapayaSF Win Spock's ears, 1967

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2021.09.22 04:13 Lenfercestlesautres_ Husband who will not listen, getting worse

Throw away account because I don't know where this question will go.
Looking for advice from women who intuitively know what I mean.
About us: I've been with my husband 8 years, married 3. In our 30s, professionals with science degrees. Mostly a happy, affectionate marriage but over the years this problem is getting worse.
A nurse once asked him if he had an attention deficit. Not sure if that really is it and it's getting worse but something really feels wrong and it's causing a lot of frustrating, desperate feelings.
It's in small situations to big, important issues. Even small requests like asking him to pass a condiment can somehow turn into a about a exchange of dialogue 3 times before he just hands me the bottle that is next to him.
Me: "Will you please hand me the honey bottle for my tea?" Husband: "Oh we have packets too." Me: "I know, I'll use them later. I'm in a rush and the bottle is faster and less messy." Husband: "I can look for the packets." Me: "omg, please just slide the bottle over to me. Fucking please, my hands are full and I'm rushing." Husband: "Oh, you want the bottle?" .... me: "Yes. The bottle I asked for 3 times."
It's a stupid example, but please apply this same thing to tiny daily interactions to huge, important decisions.
I'm feeling so desperate. If I need him for something, I have to go through the whole process of asking nicely, calming several times, explaining every logical way I can, then desperately begging, and last resort screaming angrily. And it's sad but in the end screaming at him is the only way he will listen. It's wrong to scream at him, and in the end I end up crying that it's what it takes. (Talking about things more serious than passing some honey, but it did take me getting pissed off and dropping an eff bomb before he really heard me.)
We have talked about starting a family. But there will be many stressful small moments and big, important ones. I need someone who will hear me. This needs sorted out. I can't ask my husband to pass me the right diaper or something I need 5 times while juggling a baby and other shit in my hands.
Has someone been in this situation? Does it just get worse with time? What do you do? He admits he doesn't always understand something is urgent or important if I'm politely but firmly asking for something or until I start screaming. Would a therapist for one or both of us help? Serious question - did you husband have this problem and improved with a medical diagnosis?
(NOT saying I'm perfect. Obviously not. But this is a one-sided thing that has definitely gotten worse over time.)
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2021.09.22 04:13 prawnbiryani 💗☁🍦🌸🧁🤍🦩

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2021.09.22 04:13 boots_and_pantss My hair is so tangly!

I have type 2a hair and usually I don’t style it; I try to avoid heat and have recently started the robe belt curling method (it works!). I wash my hair maybe 2-3x/week. I use rahua products and really like them. I do a cool rinse in the shower after conditioner. After showering I use a hydration leave in conditionedetangler and and a leave in anti-frizz treatment. The end of the day my hair is always just tangly and I end up pulling out lots of hair from the back of my head at my neck. I have a wide tooth comb I use and some nights I also use a boar bristle brush. I think I’m doing everything right, do I just need to keep my hair completely tied up everyday? Or are there any other products I should consider? Thank you!
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2021.09.22 04:13 cmadison1998 Dual Service

I ported my number over from ATT to TMobile on Friday. (Today is Tuesday) I am receiving some texts on the old phone, but everything else on the new phone. I just went ahead and took the sim out of the old phone to see if that would fix it and so far hasn’t. Anyone have any ideas?
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2021.09.22 04:13 CasanovAlekxz Help with free hands

I need to force the audios to send via my free hands connected by Bluetooth is there any app that can force this because I can't send em in any Bluetooth hands free product unless they are plugged with cable and I only can use bone conduction earphones due to a problem with my ears
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2021.09.22 04:13 invtnipgingbitch nipple piercings might be infected, do i go to piercer or doctor?

my piercings are about 4 months old and recently i’ve noticed they look a bit irritated but didn’t think too much of it. today they’ve been hurting more, not a lot just like sore or irritated, especially in the actual holes. Now i have a fever and i’m worried that they are badly infected even though they don’t look it. There is no swelling or redness or smelly discharge, but some areas of one of my boobs is sore and the fever is my biggest concern. My piercer told me to only do a sea salt soak once a day but i’ve stepped it up to two to help clean them more. I’m not sure if i should get it checked out by a piercer or go to the doctor because of the fever.
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2021.09.22 04:13 SnooChipmunks7440 Hola, busco amiga, para después ser novios

Hola, soy un chico que busca alguna chica para conversar y talvez llegar a ser amigos o más uwu. Si te interesa puedes mandar mensaje 🖤🖤
PD. Por DM nos conocemos más por eso no dejo mucha información de mi aquí
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2021.09.22 04:13 jellybeans_over_raw TCL Series 6 65” or TCL Series 5 75” (from about 9.5 ft viewing distance)

Hey guys, I’m on a budget if you will of about $1200 and more than anything I want a combo of size and quality. If the 65” isn’t too small from this 9-10 ft distance and worth it for the quality I’ll go with that. If 75” will make the viewing better over the quality than I’ll go with that. Hoping to reach a consensus with some help from you all. Thanks!
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2021.09.22 04:13 zerohero01 Man I hate this disease

It ruins every aspect of anyones life
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2021.09.22 04:13 wizardward21 Where to find Hiboy S2 replacement parts?

Yesterday the top screw and spring that were in the latch for my Hiboy S2 non pro fell out somewhere on my ride from my dorm to my class. I didn't notice until after my class and the latch securer that the spring and screw were in was loose and jumping around while riding
I wanted to know where I could find that same screw I need and the spring needed for that little latch part. I can't find anything online so I want to know if you all know of places where I could find it, or could supply pictures of what I need to look for.
Thanks so much!!
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2021.09.22 04:13 SNOWWAKKA [PS4] H: TSE 2* Ultracite laser W: Common legacy bundles (best offer so far is a AAE15vc cryo)

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2021.09.22 04:13 Hknuf I really need to trust my snipes more. Been trying to pick it back up after not using it for a month and I hit this crazy clip. I may or may not have screamed. Check out for extremely mediocre content! lmao

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2021.09.22 04:13 Haydens1234 New update! (iOS Screenshot)

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